Faith on a Wing and a Prayer

Hot off the pressed, well hot off my laptop is a new chapter in the Walking With Angels series. Having a little faith is what we all need but how? The answer is in the chapter.

Just click on todays title and you'll be wisked to the answers.

Isn't the internet wonderful! Enjoy!

Angels still with Me

This is part two of the series "Walking with Angels". It's called "Angels are still with Me". All you have to do in click on the title and the link will take you there. Enjoy!

Walking with Angels

I wrote my book "I had a stroke" because everyone told me I should write a book about my experience. So I did!

I posted it on line right here a few years back. People kept showing up to read the latest chapter. Great comments kept coming back.

So here I am again with a new subject but this time it's on my website Thrivingsurvivor.com.

The first chapter is called "Walking with Angels".

I hope you read it and comment on it. I could alway use the input!

Mountains

I met a woman once, she was on a mountain top and I on the one next to it.

We called back and forth to one another.

She said, “Hello.”

I said, “Hello,” back.

I called out, “How are you?” and she replied, “I want off this mountain.”

I called back, “Are you hungry?”

She called back, “Yes but I need off this mountain.”

I replied, “First eat to build your strength and then you'll be off this mountain.”

She replied, “I have nothing to eat.”

I replied, “Consume the mountain and you will be off it.”

She thought for a moment, how can I eat an entire mountain?

Well her mountain was built of her life and each step built it. The more she climbed, the higher it got. The height to which it had risen was dizzying.

I called out, “The mountain is the food you have stored to sustain the rest of your life.”

She called back, “But this is not the life I have asked for.”

I called back. ”But this is the life you have cultivated. It is a fruit at your feet, consume it and you will be sustained.”

She accepted it as her meal. The taste was not to her liking but she ate of it never the less.

Each experience filled her.

She consumed it all and filled with it, she saw she was not on a mountain at all just on a journey, one to which she could decide the direction.

The map she follows was hers in the end.

Many mountains and many valleys, as many as she chooses.

She was not lost at all, high on a mountain top with no hope of rescue but on a trip one she could control.

So her map was not a barrier but a series of choices. Each mountain would sustain her, each valley would comfort her.

It was not someone else' map but her own to step where she liked and to travel where she wished.

The difference now was she was consuming her life, not turning away from it, like a dish she didn't want to eat.

Fear not the geography of your life.

It is a world of your needs.

The landscape of your needs.

In the end the picture will reveal itself!

Thriving Survivor

My Affirmation

Built your ditches in the desert and then stand back and see the Salvation of the Lord.

I dug my ditches with my book and then rested.

Thanking the Lord for the blessing of writing the book as I knew he wanted me to do.

A raindrop fell from a sunny sky and I knew I was truly blessed.

My ditch was attracting a shower and as I watched the rain became heavier starting to pool in my ditches.

Faster the rain fell and the my ditches became flooded.

The water reached out of the ditch to touch the other ditches.

Earlier I was in the middle of a desert surrounded by mountains on all sides and was thirsty but believing that my ditches would be filled to over flowing if I just did the work.

My ditch became a pool that became a lake which grew into a sea that lifted me up and quenched my thirst.

I thank God.

My Book

Stroke Weather Forecast

A really close friend of mine just reminded me of a saying I always use and believe in, "It's always sunny above the clouds." Now that's a real forecast for someone trying to recover for a stroke or a brain injury.

Let's face it, the saying works on anyone who's working on getting better from any thing they're suffering from.

Basically you have to have faith that if you're working as hard as you can to get better you will see the sun eventually, I know because I did.

Paralyzed down the left side I still wanted to got for a walk as I looked out the hospital window. My room was on the top floor of Joseph Brant Hospital you can see in the picture.

The catch to recovering is simple, I didn't lay around waiting for a miracle to drop by. I worked at getting better til I was so tired I had to lay down a sleep for an hour. After the nap I would work again, with or without a therapist.

All the hard work with the tricks I made up got me walking, talking, reading and doing everything I did before my stroke.

Really all I wanted was to go for a walk outside of the hospital, everything else was a bonus!

Getting Better or Waiting to Die?

A major hurdle for Stroke Survivors is reading, so I've started to do audio blog entries for them. It makes it easier for them to hear the information over and over again.

They can listen to the blog or download the mp3.

I know in my case while recovering, reading was so hard I would have to nap after reading just a page or two.

So I'm going to try this out and see what response I get.

The website is, www.thrivingsurvivor.com/stroke_audio_blog.html

Telling the Truth

As I continue to help Stroke Survivors and their Caregivers I started with something very basic but very nessessary, Telling the Truth to your advantage. That's the title. This advise could speed up recovery and it's good advise to the non-caregiver as well.

http://www.thrivingsurvivor.com/Caregivers.html

Stroke Books big Day

Yesterday was a big day for me. The website for my book from my publisher was up and running.
A long list of people had been waiting to read my book, “I had a Stroke, didn't like it so I got rid of it”.
E Mails started coming in from my very patient waiters and they wanted to let my know they had ordered the book. Thanks.
My number one theme in life with this book is to Motivate Stroke Survivors and their Caregivers. I have no other reason to do all this work unless I can spread the word. This link will take you there, http://www.trafford.com/07-2960
For all of you that read my book and think it will help others ( survivors and caregivers ) please spread the word and also let me know your thoughts. As always I will do my best to answer questions so let me know.
http://www.trafford.com/07-2960

5 New Videos on Stroke

I'm always happy to answer questions about Stroke Recovery since mine was so complete.  I've produced 5 new videos answering some very basis questions about recovery and I hope they've helpful.  

Some survivors have trouble reading as my father did and I most certainly did at the beginning of my stroke recovery.  Video seems like the perfect way to get information across to the survivor and also the caregiver.  They can watch it together.  

Follow the link to my new website, Thriving Survivor.

Your feedback would be very helpful.

New Website

Announcing my new website, Thriving Survivor.com  which I have just starting building.  The theme is " Motivating Stroke Survivors and their Caregivers".  Exciting will be the integration of written articles, audio, mp3 downloads and videos in each post.  This should make it easier for all to chose what best suits them.  

This is just the beginning of the new website and I'd appreciate some feedback if you have the time.

Book Update

The latest update about my book.

Remember to fill in the form to be notified.

I want to Die

 I don't get a lot of e mails with such sentiments to start my day off with but it does happen. This statement comes from a stroke survivor who's in a nursing home and is paralyzed down one side. No further details were shared so everything is speculation. Assuming anything is too dangerous so my reply would have to be based on what I know to be true, at least for myself.

Too many people take a statement like that and go on endlessly telling everyone what he or she should do in this and that case. It would be great if they were a therapist or doctor but likely their not, they have an opinion and their willing to share it. That's fine.

Years ago I learned something interesting about complaints. Their not there because the person want's to complain. Complaints are a request for more information all be it sometimes in a loud fiery voice. So I ask myself what does he really what?

Look at the statement; “I want to die.” Does he really or is that all he can think about doing in the situation he finds himself? If he could find away to get better even if it's little by little wouldn't he change “I want to die” to “I want to live”? I think so.

The request for more information was loud and clear to me. Help me get out of this situation, make my life better, worth living.

I've written him back and asked him to read over what I've written or listen to all my audios on my blog. I hope he does. They might inspire him to change his mind. I know he's requesting a copy of my book which is soon to be out. So while we all wait for revisions to be put in place we can all ask ourselves one thing, are my complaints requests for more information? If they're not complaints for complaints sake what outcome would we like to see when we get our request for more information granted? This is the thought I will leave you to think about.

Secret of Recover

I just wrote and article on stroke recovery and placed it on my website.  It comes with a down loadable audio for those who prefer to listen.  Here's the link  www.jimpettitt.com

Motivation

Things are getting exciting around home these days. My "proof" copy on my book "I had a Stroke" is being sent to me for my approval. Once I say "Yes" to the proof my publisher with set in motion the on-demand-printing and will alert bookstores world wide about it's availability.

Now you know why I'm excited.

The primary reason for writing this book is to help stroke survivors and their caregivers. With each chapter dealing with a challenge and solution I believe stroke survivors can use parts of it or all of it to move forward in their recovery. Even just the mindset I used to recover can make a huge difference.

I read a study which confirms my postive mindset so follow the link and see what the experts found.

http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/abstract/321/7268/1051

I had a Stroke - Book

My book is about how I took myself off the "Not expected to live" list and returned to work six months later is about to be published. To be notified when you can get your copy for yourself or your loved one follow the link and fill in the form on the first page of my website.

http://www.jimpettitt.com/

Second Good Day

What do reality game shows, the Olympics and having a stroke have in common? Also where is the loneliest place on earth? Listen in and you'll find out!

Asking Advice

A woman E Mailed me looking for advice for her mother who'd just had a stroke. Paralysis on the left side, speech problems and swallowing problems are her major challenges. In this audio I deal with her request for advice.

Just press play

A Good Plan

Starting from my fourth day of my stroke I knew I couldn't just lay around waiting for something, a miracle to happen, I had to be active. That's a good trick when your not in charge of the left side of your body.

For the full audio story, click the button below.

Good News

Good News comes in may forms, often disguised as something else. Most often we think good news comes as a surprise like walking into a room and everyone shouts out Happy Birthday. More often it comes when we reflex back and realize a trying event was good news hidden,the silver lining in a black cloud.

The full story, click the player below.